Title: Ranting
Tags: Rant Rave Annoy Blog Dating
Blog Entry: Well, it's ranting time! brought to you by our sponser, UPS and fed Ex, who have recently merged into FedUp! Well, this is aobut dating in general, though more of my experience is from online. I'm starting to get tired of even trying to date. Throughout the last 10 years, women have been slowly proving themselves to be annoying as hell (No offense!) When I was 12, I told a girl in school I liked her, her response; "Ah, you do? well, i don't like you, but could you tell your friend John i LOVE him!" Afterwhich she proceeded to tell the ENTIRE school how she had rejected me, which in turn crushed my confidence, and is partially to blame why I'm not fully confident in talking to any girl i have any interest in beyond friendship. Others I've tried in real life always either are already taken, just 'got out of a bad relationship' though that didn't stop them for asking for $20 in gas money, which they wouldn't get, and later i see them buying 250$ worth of stuff from the Wal-Mart I worked at (Aka gold digger) and now that ive been to dating SITES i can seeh ow hypocritical the female sex is. Yes, most men are pigs, and i can see why you women have such high standards, but literally, its become hypocritical. the following, is a DIRECT COPY/PASTE from someones dating profile descrbing what they want and who they are, and 99% of ALL the womens profiles ive seen are the same or similar. Quote "I want my man to love me for who I am no matter what . I want him to be willing to accept that I'm not perfect, and not expect me to know where I'm going with my life or work. I want him to be willing to let me have my space, and not expect me to be his slave. I am looking for a man who is driven and motivated to make a mark on the world. I want him to be goal oriented, and know where he's going in life. My man needs to have a bachelors degree or better, and make atleast, if not more than $25k dollars a year. My man needs to love my family, no matter what. He has to be outgoing, love the outdoors, and buy me things to show me he loves me. EndQuote I agree that thats all fine and dandy, but seriously girls why can't you settle for middle ground? I mean seriously, you want the osmond/brady family? you're setting your goals too high, so high infact that you're passing up other still good chances. The funny thing is, is; You say you want ALL that perfection, yet you keep making the same stupid decisions, and dating guys who are obviously assholes. 99.999999% of anyone you meet in the following places, or fit the following descriptions will cheat on you, not love you, never meet any of your standards, and yet you choose them still? Anyone in a Bar, Club, Beer Party, Most college men, The 'sexy' men (they know they can have anyone, why would they settle for just you when they can have more?) rich men, popular men, outgoingly-bold men, smooth-talkers, etc etc etc, basically, ANY TYPE OF MAN YOU WILL DROOL OVER IS BAD NEWS! The main point here is, you want us to be perfect, but expect us to accept less. You want us to be perfect, so you dont have to be. Unless youre the type who does anything and everything she can to look great all the time etc etc etc, and to you, this doesnt apply because your atleast expecting no less from your partner than you do yourself. Try settling for the more mediocre man, who might not be as fun or as attractive. Because i can almost guaruntee you, anyone who meets your high standards, will leave you. Nice guys finish last, but they also finish longest.
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